Is Married Dating the new Revolution?
The topics of monogamy and infidelity and adultery always seem to be lurking just below the surface of any relationship. They are deal makers and they are deal breakers. Being in a monogamous relationship looks to be the standard we are all supposed to measure ourselves up to. If you can find that one special person and be with them and only them for the rest of your life, you have found what you’re looking for.
But is monogamy really natural?
One very interesting perspective on married dating suggests so.
It is my opinion that monogamy is completely unnatural and that the ultimate existence would include several different mates or partners for both women and men. When you glance at the rest of nature, humans are pretty much the sole species who have chosen to be with only 1 mate. And even within us, things appear to be changing. Divorce rates are higher, and people are cheating on their spouses in constantly increasing numbers.
And even if you choose to practice monogamy with your partner, what percentage of us if given the choice to stray with his or her approval and no effects, would milk it? Usually, we have chosen to be monogamous for fear of losing our better half. It is not because we do not have wishes for other people. It isn’t because we are not drawn to others. It’s only because of fear of effects.
And then, at the end of it if we’ve managed to navigate an entire lifetime being true to one person we want to we’ve accomplished something enormous.
Obviously, it is faith which has instilled the monogamy myth within us. There are two points in the 10 commandments alone that make us aware we should find and keep only 1 chum. And religions outside of Christianity can be even more severe.
I am just attempting to illustrate that this ideal of monogamy we’ve had pushed down our throats from the instant we could understand what they were saying, is completely against human nature.
It’s not what we want. And it’s not what would make us most happy. Humans need a selection of different pals in their life to satisfy all of their different pal needs….why do we think only 1 person can satisfy all of our relationship needs forever? It isn’t making sense.
I know I am not the sole person who feels that way, which is clear with all of the married dating services and websites surfacing nowadays. People are starting to understand that life is short, and one person, no matter how glorious they may be , just isn’t going to cut it for the remainder of your life.