I am going to tell you a story that is hurtful for me, but hopefully will be helpful to you. It is a story that I do not like to relive, but it is something that I would not want anyone else to go through. Years ago I thought that my spouse is cheating on me and I thought perhaps it was just me that nothing was going on. Unfortunately, I found out later after catching them for myself. Had I not just let things go, looked at the signs and looked up the numbers on my spouses phone using a reverse phone directory service, I could have prevented it.